Getting your ex Boyfriend Back

Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Archive for June, 2008

Remember that survey I asked you to fill out
a few days ago? Well I just wanted to let you know
that you are not alone…

Here are some early results of the survey that I thought
you might like to hear…

Most of you who responded are between the ages of 35
and 45, with equal numbers both older and younger than
that age group.

And most of you still care for your ex, and naturally, would
like to get them back. Some of you simply responded that
you wanted to make sure that they were doing OK
with the breakup…showing that you still cared for
them as a person.

This is really refreshing news, and hopefully helps you realize
that you are not the only one going through the pain and empty
feelings that you get when breaking up.

I’m just one guy, but I really hope that I can continue to provide
you with encouragement and ideas to help you continue
to feel good about yourself and your current relationship status.

Let me know how things are going for you, I try to answer my
email everyday (but sometimes get behind).

Stay strong and I’ll have another article for you in a few days.

“The Fix it Guy”

PS Don’t forget about my favorite resource to help you get
back together with your ex, The Magic of Making Up.

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Jun
28

"Make Up Don’t Break Up" Report

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I hope you are having a
*GREAT* Wednesday.

I’m feeling energized today
and hope you enjoyed my
article on How to Make an Apology
a few days ago.

Today I’ve got a recommended
resource that has personally
helped me and many others..

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THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP
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remember when
I told you I thought my relationship
was cursed?

Well I tried everything under
the sun to improve it

- Writing Her Letters

- Buying Her Flowers

- Meditation under a
tree (Well I’m just kidding
on that one :-) )

But seriously..

I really wanted to save my
relationship and get back with my
ex!

And after a long time I
discovered an *INCREDIBLE*
system by T.W. Jackson.

(I’ll give you the website in
a moment)

I studied his materials and
like 100’s of other success
stories on his website I
saw *HUGE* improvements in
our relationship in a short time frame.

If you would like to restore
your relationship, check out “T-Dub’s”
e-book below

Yes , I want to Reunite
with My Ex

Hope you enjoyed today’s
issue and I look forward to
hearing from you soon. (I want
to get your opinions on something)

“The Fix it Guy”

PS: I tried almost everything out there.
“The Magic of Making Up”
got fast results.

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The course of true love never did run smooth – and that’s certainly true of one couple who have just celebrated their first wedding anniversary, 36 years after they split up.

Nigel Postle and Diana Gascoigne fell in love in 1969 when they worked at May & Baker in Norwich.

The relationship did not work out and they married other people -but three decades after they split, they made contact through popular website Friends Reunited and fell in love all over again.

Now they have just celebrated their first wedding anniversary and looking forward to returning to their home city to build a new life.

Nigel said: “I am so looking forward to coming home. Over the 34 years we were apart, there was hardly a time when I didn’t think of her, wonder where she was or what she was doing.”

When the pair met, former Thorpe Grammar School pupil Nigel was 19, and Diana, who grew up in Heacham, was 17.

The couple lived happily together for two years in Cyprus Street, until a row shortly after Nigel’s 21st birthday saw them split up. Nigel went to London to study law while Diana trained as a PE teacher in Leicester. Both married and had children – but neither was happy. Diana and her husband split up and she brought up her daughters as a single parent, while father-of-two Nigel had two unsuccessful marriages.

Nigel, 55, said: “Breaking up with Diana was the most painful experience I have ever endured and I never really got over her. The pain subsided but the memory and love for her carried on.”

The feeling was mutual and in 2002, Diana, who had moved to Yorkshire, put her details on Friends Reunited in the hope Nigel might get in touch.

Diana, 54, said: “I was on there for a year and I hadn’t heard anything from him so I stopped looking. In 2004, my mother died and I went on there again because I needed to get in touch with some cousins.

“Nigel’s email was sat there and had been for 18 months. We talked and arranged to meet each other in Norwich in 2005.

“I realised that the man I had loved was still there and he said I was the same girl he had known back then. We got engaged in September 2005 and were married in March the following year. I really have found the perfect husband.”

The couple, who live in Leeds, have now found a home in Knowsley Road, Norwich, and will move in next month.

A date in 1969

# Dance to Sugar Sugar by The Archies, Get Back by The Beatles or Je T’aime … Moi Mon Plus by Jane Birkin and Serge Gainsbourg at the Samson and Hercules

# Enjoy a beer and a Babycham at The Talk.

# Visit the London Steakhouse in Tombland for prawn cocktail, steak and black forest gateaux.

# See Paul Newman and Robert Redford in Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid at the Gaumont cinema, now Mecca bingo opposite John Lewis.

A date in 2007

# Catch a hot new band such as The Sunshine Underground or the Maccabees at The Waterfront.

# Go to Mercy or Lava/Ignite for the latest club hits.

# Relax with a Budweiser or vodka and Red Bull.

# Eat at Pizza Express in The Forum.

# Head for the cinema to watch Hot Fuzz or Ghost Rider.

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Think back to the last time that someone apologized to you. What
do you think they were trying to accomplish? Most people would say
that the other person was admitting to being wrong. In fact, the
Oxford English Dictionary even uses the word “excuse” in its
definition for apology.

Is that what you were hoping for the last time someone apologized
to you, an excuse for their behavior? Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary
even sneaks in the word “alibi” as a synonym…”a desire to shift
blame or evade punishment.”

Well the dictionary people have the definition of “apology” all
wrong (and I bet they were no good in relationships either!).

The true purpose of making an apology in a relationship is to take
responsibility for the current circumstances.

Before you make an apology, you first need to recognize these
mistakes that you can avoid:

  • trying to decipher who is right and who is wrong
  • being insincere
  • saying, “I’m sorry, but…”
  • expecting forgiveness
  • expecting the other person to apologize (and accept blame) in return

Some of these mistakes may be surprising to you…but making them
is a sure way to go from bad to worse in a hurry.

Instead, try to get yourself in the right mindset first…remember,
you are trying to save your relationship (not save-face).

Step one is to acknowledge the other person’s feelings.
Even if you get this wrong, at least you are trying. Your wife (or
husband) will recognize that you are considering her (his) feelings
first.

Try saying, “You must be feeling very ____ right now.” You
may get the feeling right, but even if its wrong, you have opened
communication to allow the other person to express their feelings.
You are creating a setting where both of you can be on the same
page to start with.

Next (step two), is to Explain Why
Everyone wants to know WHY:

  • did you stay out late last night?
  • did you skip the bills this month?
  • won’t she sleep with me anymore?
  • did he have an affair?

Remember that you MUST have the right mindset before explaining WHY.
You are taking responsibility for the current circumstances.

You might try saying, “I felt so frustrated that we no longer seem to
understand each other, that it felt easier to stay out at the bar with the guys.”

Now this is dangerous territory…but it has to be tread at some
point. Your wife/husband may respond in tears if this is the first
time they felt that their feelings about the circumstances were
acknowledged.

Now the most important part is Step Three…

Let them know that YOU were affected too
…by the circumstances that YOU are taking *responsibility* for.
“Now I feel so guilty that I let you down, and that your feelings
were hurt and I betrayed your trust. My actions have caused you to
mistrust me.”

Finally, do not expect ANYTHING in return.

While you will obviously WANT to be forgiven, you need to let that
happen on your partner’s terms. This may be the first step in a
long healing process, and they may not be ready to forgive you
yet…but if and when they do is up to them. You can only have
control over your own mindset and action.

Remember these four steps:
1) Acknowledge their feelings
2) Let them know Why
3) Tell them how your transgressions affected *you*
4) Don’t expect anything in return.

This Four step method can help to prevent the gradual accumulation
of all sorts of anger and resentment that can build up in a
relationship.

Does this feel like too much to you right now? Practice on your
co-worker, your dog or your best friend. Try this..

You: (step 1) Fluffy, I know you must be confused right now.
Fluffy: Raises lips to bare teeth and growls
You: OK, angry. I’m sorry.
Fluffy: Lowers lips and raises ears.
You: (step 2) Fluffy, I was so behind at work that I stayed late
to talk to a client…and left YOU to fend for yourself…and you
can’t even open the can of dogfood I left on the counter. I’m
sorry.
Fluffy: Reaches out her paw to you, tilting head, listening to the
rest of your apology
You: (step 3) I feel so guilty that I’ve caused you pain and
hunger…and I take full responsibilty for the fact that you gnawed
through the thawing fillet I left on the counter to fix for my date
tonight.
Fluffy: Sniffs in the air, takes paw back and leaves room and urinates
on your trousers.

OK, maybe it’s a silly example, but hopefully you get the point.
Think about how you can use this in your relationships…not just
in your failed and strained relationships, but your everyday
relationships as well.

Like everything else that is important in life, Practice Makes
Perfect. Start practicing this four step apology method today.

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Jun
23

Men & Women Keep Score Differently

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Men & Women Keep Score Differently

You HAVE to understand how your partner is keeping score in the relationship…it is also essential to understand in order to get the relationship back on track.

Both men and women do keep a sort of point system subconsciously.

-Men typically award more points if an action is BIG, and less points if an action is small.

-Women typically give one point no matter how big or small.

Reread that if you need to…it sounds like no big deal…but it is a huge factor in having a successful relationship and recreating a successful relationship.

The big problems come when we try to win points. We feel like the partner is keeping score just like us, so we do what we think would give us a good score, but it doesn’t work like this.

So say a man wants to score “points” with a woman. He thinks like a man and says to himself…I am going to do something REALLY BIG and score a lot of points at one time…

“Yeah…then I am set for a few weeks… maybe even a month!”

So…he goes out and does “something big”…like buying a very expensive piece of jewelery…

Which any woman would be more than happy to receive…

But…

The problem is he then mistakenly calculates that he really doesn’t need to do anything more…for a while…

Now…MOST women…if given a choice between getting a piece of jewelery OR…getting a love note one day…an unexpected “I just called to say I love you” telephone call the next day…a single rose the next…and many SMALL things often…will go with the “many small things often” over the one HUGE thing 90% of the time.

Does that make sense?

Does it make sense now why some arguments go like this:

Woman: “Why don’t you bring me flowers anymore?”

Man: Very…very aggravated…”WHAT?… I just bought you a gold necklace JUST LAST MONTH!”

Ever sound familiar?

You see…all along he’s thinking he is good to go for quite some time BECAUSE that is how MEN KEEP SCORE.

(Note: Gentleman if you are thinking “How can I come up with so many ways to earn points with her?” Visit this link right now. Click Here.)

Now ladies…this works…or doesn’t work in the reverse too. Women generally do nice “little” things every day…

And they mistakenly believe they are “racking up” a lot of points.

Pick up his dry cleaning 1 point

Give him a back massage 1 point

Leave him a little love note 1 point

and on and on…

But what happens? A big argument ensues because she feels she has racked up all of these points…and he never shows any appreciation for all of the points she has earned.

See…in “his” mind he does appreciate those little things…but he doesn’t keep score that way…and is not going to make a big deal out of a few one pointers.

See, the girl would be much better off…if she would have just bought tickets to a BIG ballgame…she would have scored like 50 points all at ONCE…and SHE would be good to go for weeks! And he would tell all of his friends and thank her profusely as well as NEVER FORGETTING the time she bought tickets to the big playoff game.

Cuz’ that’s just the way it works with men.

(Ladies want to know ways to score HUGE points with men? Click Here.)

So how do you use this to win back your ex boyfriend’s, ex girlfriends or ex spouses heart?

Pretty simple…

Guys you will be much better off doing a series of small things.

Gals you need to figure out ONE BIG thing.

But if you are “on the rocks”…it is a little more difficult…right? There is a way to get around this…

Guys I highly recommend The Magic Of Making Up because this will get you “back into position” to score the points quickly.

Ladies…if you are confused about if he still cares…With the resources in The Magic Of Making Up you can find out today. Plus, learn easy things you can do to rack up BIG points and some other wonderful easy to implement techniques. (And No I don’t mean SEX.)

Check it out here:

How To Get Back Your Ex

Both of these guides have my highest recommendation because they work and are very inexpensive. If it is important to you to revive your relationship…it would be silly not to have these at your side.

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Think back to the last time that someone apologized to you. What
do you think they were trying to accomplish? Most people would say
that the other person was admitting to being wrong. In fact, the
Oxford English Dictionary even uses the word “excuse” in its
definition for apology.

Is that what you were hoping for the last time someone apologized
to you, an excuse for their behavior? Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary
even sneaks in the word “alibi” as a synonym…”a desire to shift
blame or evade punishment.”

Well the dictionary people have the definition of “apology” all
wrong (and I bet they were no good in relationships either!).

The true purpose of making an apology in a relationship is to take
responsibility for the current circumstances.

Before you make an apology, you first need to recognize these
mistakes that you can avoid:

trying to decipher who is right and who is wrong
being insincere
saying, “I’m sorry, but…”
expecting forgiveness
expecting the other person to apologize (and accept blame) in return

Some of these mistakes may be surprising to you…but making them
is a sure way to go from bad to worse in a hurry.

Instead, try to get yourself in the right mindset first…remember,
you are trying to save your relationship (not save-face).

Step one is to acknowledge the other person’s feelings.
Even if you get this wrong, at least you are trying. Your wife (or
husband) will recognize that you are considering her (his) feelings
first.

Try saying, “You must be feeling very ____ right now.” You
may get the feeling right, but even if its wrong, you have opened
communication to allow the other person to express their feelings.
You are creating a setting where both of you can be on the same
page to start with.

Next (step two), is to Explain Why
Everyone wants to know WHY:

did you stay out late last night?
did you skip the bills this month?
won’t she sleep with me anymore?
did he have an affair?

Remember that you MUST have the right mindset before explaining WHY.
You are taking responsibility for the current circumstances.

You might try saying, “I felt so frustrated that we no longer seem to
understand each other, that it felt easier to stay out at the bar with the guys.”

Now this is dangerous territory…but it has to be tread at some
point. Your wife/husband may respond in tears if this is the first
time they felt that their feelings about the circumstances were
acknowledged.

Now the most important part is Step Three…

Let them know that YOU were affected too
…by the circumstances that YOU are taking *responsibility* for.
“Now I feel so guilty that I let you down, and that your feelings
were hurt and I betrayed your trust. My actions have caused you to
mistrust me.”

Finally, do not expect ANYTHING in return.
While you will obviously WANT to be forgiven, you need to let that
happen on your partner’s terms. This may be the first step in a
long healing process, and they may not be ready to forgive you
yet…but if and when they do is up to them. You can only have
control over your own mindset and action.

Remember these four steps:
1) Acknowledge their feelings
2) Let them know Why
3) Tell them how your transgressions affected *you*
4) Don’t expect anything in return.

This Four step method can help to prevent the gradual accumulation
of all sorts of anger and resentment that can build up in a
relationship.

Does this feel like too much to you right now? Practice on your
co-worker, your dog or your best friend. Try this..

You: (step 1) Fluffy, I know you must be confused right now.
Fluffy: Raises lips to bare teeth and growls
You: OK, angry. I’m sorry.
Fluffy: Lowers lips and raises ears.
You: (step 2) Fluffy, I was so behind at work that I stayed late
to talk to a client…and left YOU to fend for yourself…and you
can’t even open the can of dogfood I left on the counter. I’m
sorry.
Fluffy: Reaches out her paw to you, tilting head, listening to the
rest of your apology
You: (step 3) I feel so guilty that I’ve caused you pain and
hunger…and I take full responsibilty for the fact that you gnawed
through the thawing fillet I left on the counter to fix for my date
tonight.
Fluffy: Sniffs in the air, takes paw back and leaves room and urinates
on your trousers.

OK, maybe it’s a silly example, but hopefully you get the point.
Think about how you can use this in your relationships…not just
in your failed and strained relationships, but your everyday
relationships as well.

Like everything else that is important in life, Practice Makes
Perfect. Start practicing this four step apology method today.

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Jun
20

Deidre Gets Her Man BACK!

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TW Jackson just shared a really cool email with
us that he got from Deidre the other day.

…and I wanted to share it with you.

Deidre emailed TW and said:

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Hi,

I downloaded your ebook just a few days ago and began right away
following the steps as suggested even though it was so very
difficult not to call my ex. My Ex called just 5 minutes ago
wanting to take me on a date tonight. I was not pushing and so he
had no reason to pull. The info in your e-book in invaluable.

I really really appreciate you helping me.

Deidre

**********

Now, juuuust in case you think TW drummed that up
somehow…

Here’s the actual picture of the email from Deidre:

The pic:

Getting your ex Boyfriend Back

Xufeng this stuff WORKS! And if you haven’t
downloaded The Magic Of Making Up…do it right now because
it really works FAST and if for some reason it doesn’t,
ANY reason at all…just get your money back

You have a 60 freaking days to test it!!!

Okay?

Grab it here:

Download Get Back Your Ex Here!

And Xufeng, it is my sincerest hope that I get an
email from you saying “I GOT MY EX BACK

I’ll do a happy dance for ya!

PS Grab The Magic Of Making Up and if for any reason it doesn’t
work for your situation…you can get your money back AND
still keep it. Fair Enough?

Get Back YOUR Ex Here!

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The 7 Common Mistakes People
Make When Trying to Get Back
Together With Their Ex’s

Mistake 6: Foolish Pride

There is a certain amount of implied insult in a break up. The underlying message is “You are not good enough for me. I can do better.”

Understandably, our egos and pride may not react well to this covert message.

The mistake of pride is different than the other mistakes in this series in that it is an error of omission as opposed to commission.

The insulted is either unwilling to consider the possibility that they should try to get back together or their pride may keep them from taking the necessary steps.

They say to themselves “My ex hurt me and I should not have to be the one to repair this… even though I want to be with him/her again.”

Their attitude toward the breakup precludes any reparative action on their part. The steps they need to take to get back their ex are prevented by a hostile and self-important attitude.

The problem is that the relationship may have had value, it may have been overall very healthy, and the best thing for both partners, but they are unable to do anything about it because of “foolish pride!”

One of the reasons pride gets in the way is because people assume that they have to grovel, beg, apologize, or somehow humiliate themselves in order to win back their ex.

That is not the case! You should not do any of these things. These things would not contribute to attraction – which is the necessary ingredient in the recipe of getting back together.

Mistake 7: Wishful Thinking

There is a saying that is often referenced in regard to break ups:

“If you love something enough let it go free, if it doesn’t return it was never meant to be.”

It’s comforting to think that fate will somehow handle our lives but let’s be realistic… the fact is: your current situation is due to cause and effect and your future situation will be due to cause and effect. If you truly value your relationship with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend and want to get back together with them you are going to have to “cause” it to happen.

If you decide to just wait and see if your ex changes their mind you are taking a passive and lazy approach… one that is not likely to work out in your favor. In order for your ex to change their mind on their own they have to change their mind about the reasons they had for the breakup. Barring some kind of dramatic, paradigm shifting realization this probably isn’t going to happen.

A more proactive approach is for you to “cause” them to change their mind about the reasons they had for the break up. More precisely, you have to make yourself attractive enough that the reasons for the breakup are unimportant. Your role in “causing” this change in your ex’s thinking is still passive in a sense but that doesn’t make it ineffective.

No, this does not involve stalking, arguing, or anything else that would only cement the decision in your ex’s mind. Rather, this involves you working on who you are and allowing your ex to realize, on their own, that you are a different person than you were when you were together. If they realize this they will be many more times more likely to “give it another chance.” Basically, by improving yourself and making yourself more attractive you give them a compelling reason to get back together… in spite of their reasons for breaking up. This is the essence of the “How to Get Back Your Ex” plan and the reason it works so well.

If you are interested in getting back together with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend I highly recommend that you check it out:

Learn about “How to Get Back Your Ex” >>>

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The 7 Common Mistakes People
Make When Trying to Get Back
Together With Their Ex’s

Mistake 3: Manipulation

Your goal in getting back your ex is to repair and regain a relationship that is valuable to you. This is an admirable intention. But, admirable intentions do not justify the use of any means necessary.

Using kids, money, sex, or any other kind of leverage available to you to coerce your ex into coming back to you is not only unkind, your ex will lose respect for you.

These tactics backfire much more often than they work. Your ex is likely to see through what you are doing and only resist your attempts with more resolve than ever before. Their recognition that you are manipulating them will only be another reason they don’t want to be with you.

Even if you were successful at getting them back, the long term consequences would not be favorable. Forcing someone to do something creates resentment. Resentment is relationship cancer.

Don’t entice your ex by teasing them sexually hoping that if they get frustrated enough they will sleep with you and then you’ll have leverage. Don’t make them feel unnecessary guilt about not being good enough parents to their kids just so they will come over more often. Don’t offer them money hoping that they will become indebted to you. Don’t get together with another person and rub it in their face just to make them feel jealous.

Manipulation, in any degree or to any extent, no matter how small or insignificant, will create a tear in the relationship.

Avoid it altogether.

The kind of relationship that you want cannot be based on underhanded, conniving tactics. Don’t be so shortsighted that you sacrifice what could be a healthy, long-lasting relationship for your immediate gratification.

If you have been using a manipulative tactic you need to spend some time examining yourself and your feelings for your ex. How much do you really care about them if you are willing to use such hostile and devious tricks on them? Maybe they are better off without you if you don’t care about them enough to resist resorting to such unfairness.

Out of all the mistakes that someone can make when they are getting back their ex this is probably the worst because it reflects poorly on you as a person. I hope that if you’ve been trying manipulation to get back your ex that you will instead take a look at what my book can offer you.

Mistake 4: Reasoning, Persuading, and Arguing

The other day I was reading an ad for that beautiful new iPod I want to buy. You could say that I was reading it because I was hoping it would convince me to finally plunk down the cash… because I DO want that iPod in my hands.

I also read a somewhat negative review of the new iPod. I already have an older iPod (the ones with the black and white screens) and I know that they are spectacular products – easy to use, reliable, and very chic. So, as I was reading this review and the author was picking on so-called “flaws” I’m thinking to myself “Hmm, I never had a problem with that,” “There is a solution to that, Dummy,” and “You don’t know what you are talking about!” Basically, I was arguing with the reviewer in my head.

My point (yes, I DO have a point) is this…

Words are persuasive when they are convincing us to do something that we already want to do. We go along with it without resisting. But, when words are trying to persuade us to do something that we don’t want to do, they can actually make us more firm and confident in our decision because they force us to come up with counter arguments. In other words, they backfire.

Trying to convince your ex to get back together is trying to get them to do something that they already decided they don’t want to do.

As you are saying…

We were so good together. Do you really want to throw that away?”

Your ex is thinking…

Yes, that’s why I broke up with you. Things weren’t that great anyway. We were always fighting. I think I am better off with someone else.”

When you try to use persuasive arguments you force your ex to come up with equally persuasive counter responses – reasons why what you are saying is wrong and what they are doing is right.

You are asking them to explain and justify their decision… and in the process of doing that they are reinforcing the idea, in their mind, that you SHOULDN’T get back together!

The more you push the deeper they have to dig their heels into the ground to keep their footing. You are solidifying rather than dissolving their justifications for the break up.

As with all the other common mistakes people make when trying to get back together with their ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend, people unintentionally hurt their chances of getting back their ex.

It seems logical, it’s very tempting, but remember: arguing with your ex about why the two of your should get back together is like trying to talk me out of a new iPod… it just isn’t going to happen.

If you are looking for a more effective way of getting back together with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend I encourage you to learn more about my ebook “How to Get Back Your Ex.”

Mistake 5: Reassurance You Have Changed

A person’s habits and personality are relatively stable over their lifetime.

We all know this. None of us expect someone to be a completely different person with a different personality the next time we see them. None of us expect to wake up in the morning with different dreams, desires, and impulses. We expect a person’s behavior to be consistent with their past behavior. And, based on experience, this is a reasonable expectation.

Who you are today is basically who you are going to be tomorrow. Who you are this year will be very similar to who you are next year.

Dramatic, lasting changes just don’t usually happen outside of Hollywood.

Telling your ex that you have changed and that “things will be different this time” is asking them to believe something that is intuitively untrue and contradicts their life experiences.

You are saying “I’ve changed. I’m a different person and things will be different now.” But, the truth is you haven’t changed… you are saying that you are going to try to be a different person in the *future*. You may honestly feel like you are able to change your future behavior but that does not mean you are a changed person. It’s an important distinction and one that your ex will automatically make as soon as the words come out of your mouth. It’s a promise to be fulfilled at a later time, not something that has already occured (like you are claiming).

It’s not an effective approach to repairing your relationship and getting back together with your ex. I wouldn’t advise it to anyone. It’s a lame (though unconscious) attempt to decieve you ex… and they will probably see through it.

Rather than telling your ex that you’ve changed it’s much more effective to SHOW THEM that you’ve changed. There are very specific ways of doing that and I outline them clearly in my book. If you have the time (5 minutes or so) you should defnitely take a moment to read more about it.

Getting back an ex is a complex problem. There are many ways to make mistakes and many subtle things that must be addressed to increase your chances.

If you would like a step-by-step plan for repairing your relationship and getting back your ex feel free to learn more about my book “How to Get Back Your Ex” by visiting my website on getting back together with your ex.

What if you’ve already made these mistakes? Is it still possible to get your ex back?

The short answer is “yes.” While making these mistakes is not a good thing, it doesn’t mean it’s impossible to get back together with your ex. My approach helps repair the damage caused by these mistakes (you’ll learn more about this in my book in the section on “the push and pull”) in the process of getting your ex back.

Learn about “How to Get Back Your Ex” >>>

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Jun
18

Is It Possible To Get Your Ex Back?

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Is It Possible To Get Your Ex Back?

Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless And You Are The Only One Trying? Is it possible to get your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back, even if your situation seems hopeless and you are the only one trying?

What if your ex is avoiding you and refuses to pick up the phone or reply your text messages?

Well, TW Jackson, author of The Magic of Making Up has the following answer:

“Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine,like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!”

“Couples reunite every day Regardless of the situation!”

The Next Important Question You Must Ask Yourself……

Should You Get Back With Your Ex?

You need to be very honest with yourself regarding this question.

Most of the time, people tend to lie to themselves. The fact is, some relationships are just not worth getting back into. You may be much better off to let go of it.

To decide whether a relationship is worth salvaging, you may want to consider the following factors:


(For simplicity, I will use “he”, “him”, “she”, “her” interchangeably. However the tips provided is applicable to both men and women.)


1) Do you still have feelings for him?

Sometimes, you may want to get back to him simply because you feel helpless instead of having feelings for him. For example, you can consider a woman who is in her late thirties. She may think that it is hard for her to find another boyfriend at her age. She may be willing to compromise and accept whatever conditions as long as she can save the relationship.

Don’t allow yourself to be trapped in such a situation.


2) Does your ex still have feelings for you?

It takes two hands to clap. If your ex really wants out and is no longer considering reconciliation as an option, you will have a tough time here.

Unfortunately, it is often difficult to tell whether your ex still have feelings for you. Most of the time, what your ex says doesn’t really reveal the truth.

Fortunately, you can use the “Instant Reconnect” technique to accurately determine whether you still have a special place in his/her heart.

Knowing this important information will help you get your ex back faster as you no longer need to waste time reading his/her mind. This is covered in details in the The Magic of Making Up.


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