It’s a general rule that when your girlfriend decides to leave you, you’ve done something wrong. Chances are, you’ve done a lot of somethings wrong. Fellas, we’re pretty accurately labeled as the dumber of the two genders, and when dealing with creatures as confusing as women, it’s not surprising that we make blunders that make them leave. HOWEVER, we CAN deal with them if we know how.
So that’s why I’m here, to list off the main stupid things we often do to anger our lovely, gentle little flowers and make them grow thorns. What’s more, I’m going to tell you how to get through the stupid things we do, at least the ones I’m covering in this article. Here’s a resource written for a man, by a man, to deal with women in relationships.
1) Number one thing that women hate about guys is that they just don’t pay attention to their ladies. Sure she talks a lot, but it’s USUALLY a good idea to listen to her. Even if she’s talking about things that make absolutely no sense to you, you need to pay attention to her and act like you understand. If she doesn’t get constant attention when she’s speaking, somehow you don’t love her.
Of course, this can be a bit contrary sometimes. You don’t want to pay TOO MUCH attention to her, because that’s considered “weird” or “scary.” Achieving a balance is very difficult, as you have to pay enough attention to satisfy her without hanging on her every word and freaking her out. Since every girl’s different, best idea is to simply listen to figure out exactly what she needs.
2) There’s this term women use…it’s called when a guy is being “emotionally supportive” of his woman. This term means absolutely nothing as far as I can figure…basically it’s just a way of measuring how well a guy knows his girl. It’s kinda related to List Item #1, but a bit expanded. Women are looking for when a guy pays enough attention to a girl so that he knows her almost as well as she knows herself.
There are a few lucky guys out there who come by this naturally, and those are the guys who have “game.” Women naturally love these fellas, because the boys naturally understand the women and what makes them happy. What to say, what to do…it varies from woman to woman, and only astute observation and attention paid to detail can make up for a lack of natural talent here.
3) Of course, there’s the hot-button issue of “cheating” on one another. When girls do it to their boyfriend, it’s not nearly as bad as when a guy does it to his girl…at least by their standards. Heck, most of us know how bad it is, but as I’m sure I’ve said before…we’re idiots. It gets even worse when you realize exactly what constitutes “cheating” in the female mind.
You see, having sex with another woman is only the most extreme case of cheating. Talking to other women, looking at other women, even fantasies including other women can all be considered cheating as far as girls are concerned. Sure, girls can flirt all they want with whoever they want, but to us guys it’s best that we forget that girls other than our ladies even exist…they’re all just funny-looking guys with long hair.
4) And of course, there’s always going to be trouble at home. What I mean is, if you live with your girlfriend…there’ll be issues about how you divide up housework and household responsibilities. Rarely does this in itself end a relationship, but refusing to take out the trash can be a breaking point. Do yourself a favor…do what she tells you. It’s just easier that way.
So why am I telling you all this? What good does it do you if you’ve already broken up with her? Well, this has been a list of things you could do WRONG, right? Well, how about you stop doing these things? It’ll make your future relationships better, and if you manage to get your ex girlfriend back, you’ll have a lot better chance of making it work this time.
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