First Step To Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back Ex Boyfriend Back ? Just 5 Minutes To Read This Video! Get the Flash Player to see this player.   Click Here To Learn More   * Would you like to know one of the major causes of arguments in relationships? This secret is one of THE biggest! A BIG Secret about the opposite sex Men & Women Keep Score Differently  You HAVE to understand how your partner is keeping score in the relationship...it is also essential to understand in order to get the relationship back on track. Both men and women do keep a sort of point system subconsciously. -Men typically award more points if an action is BIG, and less points if an action is small. -Women typically give one point no matter how big or small. Reread that if you need to...it sounds like no big deal...but it is a huge factor in having a successful relationship and recreating a successful relationship. The big problems come when we try to win points. We feel like the partner is keeping score just like us, so we do what we think would give us a good score, but it doesn't work like this. So say a man wants to score "points" with a woman. He thinks like a man and says to himself...I am going to do something REALLY BIG and score a lot of points at one time... "Yeah...then I am set for a few weeks... maybe even a month!" So...he goes out and does "something big"...like buying a very expensive piece of jewelery... Which any woman would be more than happy to receive... But... The problem is he then mistakenly calculates that he really doesn't need to do anything more...for a while... Now...MOST women...if given a choice between getting a piece of jewelery OR...getting a love note one day...an unexpected "I just called to say I love you" telephone call the next day...a single rose the next...and many SMALL things often...will go with the "many small things often" over the one HUGE thing 90% of the time. Does that make sense? Does it make sense now why some arguments go like this: Woman: "Why don't you bring me flowers anymore?" Man: Very...very aggravated..."WHAT?... I just bought you a gold necklace JUST LAST MONTH!" Ever sound familiar? You see...all along he's thinking he is good to go for quite some time BECAUSE that is how MEN KEEP SCORE. (Note: Gentleman if you are thinking "How can I come up with so many ways to earn points with her?" Visit this link right now. Click Here.)  Now ladies...this works...or doesn't work in the reverse too. Women generally do nice "little" things every day... And they mistakenly believe they are "racking up" a lot of points. Pick up his dry cleaning 1 point Give him a back massage 1 point Leave him a little love note 1 point and on and on... But what happens? A big argument ensues because she feels she has racked up all of these points...and he never shows any appreciation for all of the points she has earned. See...in "his" mind he does appreciate those little things...but he doesn't keep score that way...and is not going to make a big deal out of a few one pointers. See,  the girl would be much better off...if she would have just bought tickets to a BIG ballgame...she would have scored like 50 points all at ONCE...and SHE would be good to go for weeks! And he would tell all of his friends and thank her profusely as well as NEVER FORGETTING the time she bought tickets to the big playoff game. Cuz' that's just the way it works with men. (Ladies want to know ways to score HUGE points with men? Click Here.) So how do you use this to win back your ex boyfriend's, ex girlfriends or ex spouses heart? Pretty simple... Guys you will be much better off doing a series of small things. Gals you need to figure out ONE BIG thing. But if you are "on the rocks"...it is a little more difficult...right? There is a way to get around this... 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Here's the secret: Smart women know that men like women who like themselves. Now, that doesn't seem like such a big secret at first...does it? But think about this... What do so many women do when trying to win back their husband or boyfriend after a break up? Do they approach the situation with strength, power and self confidence? Not usually right? Women tell the men in almost a pleading manner how much they still love them, how they may not be able to go on without them, endlessly asking "what's wrong with me" in a dozen different ways. Why does this happen? It's not because the woman is not smart...it is because it is a very emotional time...and it is really tough to "stand back" from the situation. You know what I mean? You feel miserable...unsure of yourself...and come across to the guy you want back as being needy, clingy and, and, and as a woman who does not like themselves much. See why this doesn't work so well? Because... 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